A Valentine’s Day for All!
Valentine’s Day can be a joyful, celebratory time for many happy couples. Often it is a time to rejoice about the wonderful relationship you share with your partner. Unfortunately, the media has pivoted this day into one that is often filled with pressure to perform for our lover via making sure we get the right card, gift or proper festive event. However, this year my hope is that you will keep this day in perspective. It is fine to honor your love on this designated day, however, know that the relationship requires honoring and work every day.
And let us not forget those who may not have a special someone in their life. This
day can be about the many that touch our lives, not just someone we call our “lover.” Reach out to someone you care about and let them know they are special. Send a valentine card or note to your friends, family, children or anyone else that you appreciate. Reach out to that person who recently lost their loved one or is experiencing difficulty in their relationship.
With the “hype” that goes into this day it can have a significant negative effect on those that do not share a loving relationship with a partner. I encourage each of you to reach out beyond just the traditional notion of Valentine’s Day and spread the feeling of appreciation all around you. It has been said, “The more you give, the more you get.” Give on!
